The children need time and attention of the parents, and to have limits is a right of the child, but without violence and yes with dignity and respect, what it excuses the violence. The law promotes the welfare state without physical constaint, palavres, threats, humilhaes and punishments that bring resulted ominous the education and to the development of the potentialities of the individual. When a relation of love, respect is had and confidence if conquest the heart of the child who if becomes comprehensive and obedient. The unpreparedness of the parents emotionally unbalances them for if feeling blunt and without authority, and makes of the collisions the revenge for the resistance or disobedience of the children. The aggressive form becomes the media or form practical to unload the anger.
With such procedure, it defends for believing to be efficient the domain and control of the attitudes and behavior of the other, not sensetized for the unexpected distanciamento, discomfort, consumings, dissabores and consequncias that this act can reveal in all the situations of the daily one of the person. She is necessary to breathe deep, to calm the spirits and to decelerate to breach the barriers and to start to have attitudes to create children without traumas, pressures, punishments physical, so that they grow more healthful, happy creative and are successful. Each child is only, the secret is to know as to educate it of the best form. The child perceives that to beat she is practical the efficient one to contain something annoys that it, being become challenging and always places themselves in the defensive to annoy to maltreats who it and thus, to minimize the pain caused for the collision, she covers or verbal expression that constrange. The corporal touch is more easy of being understood of what the verbal language because the child has greater capacity to absorb what she is taught through the concrete, destarte, the fragility of the child in understanding such command does not compel the parents or educators to punish physically attacking it. The child who is maltreats not if she feels loved and she becomes unsafe and inhibited she stops with the difficulty situations that the life to present. It does not develop the feeling of love, respect and confidence by itself and for the other, the empatia.
Becoming the violence one I circulate vicious. The world is full of fights and pains, we lack of love, affection, care, attention that are gentilities that do not cost nothing, if develop in the ratio that we give and have huge effect. The education understands more than book knowledge, because the example is the practical one of that if it teaches and the behaviors are learned by the child. Thus also express the necessary love and to be practised to have validity. The children attract our affection and mercy because they are also defenseless. To fight the infantile violence today justifies on the basis of the fact of that the generation youngest will accurately follow the same way that the previous generations, the example of its parents. The love, the attention, the care and the affection are the best gifts that the children and all the people more need to receive to live well and to be happy.