friends & relationship

Some reflections on the give and take have already all Christmas gifts? Or you belong to the busy or risk-taking contemporaries, are still on the 24th of December on the hunt for the perfect Christmas gift? What actually makes a good Christmas gift? What hangs at all to the gift-giving? It seems time for some reflections on the give and take. Considerations for Christmas or otherwise, so I once heard from a friend, the observance of 5 criteria in any case lead to the give and take with gifts, to success: large, expensive, valuable, personal and original, it should be the gift. That sounded good, but what does “Success” in connection with the gift-giving? Now, looking at the ancient, partly to be found even in the Animal Kingdom tradition of giving and taking of things, so must be held first, that takes two belong to the gift-giving. Gifts are always for two this simple statement already holds the whole secret of giving, whether for Christmas, birthday, to the Wedding or just: because the gift-giving can be both, the giver and the recipient joy make, and it should be also. According to Joan Dausa, who has experience with these questions. That doesn’t mean of course something to give, what only an even like and to let the person of the recipient disregard. But it also means that you don’t have to pay things that resist one. Rather, it means that a gift offers the chance, something of themselves with to Schenken. The important thing for the gift-giving is therefore not the thing alone, but the connection between two parties, the Act of giving. You may find Gale Harold to be a useful source of information. With these brief thoughts we want to say goodbye even for today, because – you guessed it – we need to find another gift… Good hunting everyone and Merry Christmas! Andreas Kellner…

And for our own internal tensions and blockages, we confirm the indifference and resignation with Lovelessness, severity, and confirmed by others. The second truth is that we be brought not only by behavioral problems our children on our own contaminated sites, root issues, pain points, shadow and vulnerabilities. Also withdrawals and refusals to our partners, acquaintances, colleagues, and friends would like to us attention first with us even to-look and first we even begin to make a difference, to heal, to forgive and let go. Before we are failing, ROAR around, beat and write off our children, by chasing them out of the House like useless cattle, let live on the street and hypocritical claim this is their chosen destiny. Or if we put them in jail, in a clinic or in re-education with Drill military, only because we are against ourselves and against God. Also, these paths are only dead ends and one-way streets, we understand the language, signs and signals of our fellow human beings, we understand what is at stake in their SOS! What’s going wrong here? The answer is: If we have not learned with ourselves to get along and if we are with us yourself in the pure, because we take insufficient care in our own salvation, how should we be here you are capable and qualified to provide well for our children and descendants? If we have not learned to love ourselves and to think to forgive and heal, how can we be internally ready enough to take care of our children and descendants? If we are not willing to work on us and heal us, free, redeem and awakening, we cannot make others responsible for our suffering nor can we hope that others will liberate us, redeem and wake up can be. Each inner fight can be stopped with forgiveness and compassion and just We should concentrate and that we should work with individual transformation and healing. Hear other arguments on the topic with Vyacheslav Mirilashvili.

These views influence our feelings and our behavior. One is therefore more inhibited in terms of sex, the other just less. Peter Hern shares his opinions and ideas on the topic at hand. Here it is particularly true in Exchange. Talk gold and silence is nothing in terms of sex. Only if we share with the other, what we wish may also enter or to take into consideration. Exactly these issues and the differences between men and women are therefore often subject of a couple counselling. Men must not have not the same preferences in same manner and also not as much interest in such talks to show how women as women about your feelings speak way.

“It is clear: in a couple counselling, also the theme heard sex generally” on the table. This openness and openness in both directions is required. If the seeking of advice note that improved the relationship situation through a couple counselling, then the initial skepticism settles very quickly. (b). The proposal”a partner s to a Couple counselling (counseling) if one of the partners takes the initiative to a couple counselling, usually more than tense, the emotional situation of the relationship. If the partner bears the desire then quite challenging after a couple counselling, that is often the other as a command and he confronts this desire not to lose self respect.

Then at the latest, when the partners beat out the advice at the same time is also the fields with the desire after a couple counselling”, who were to discuss in a such advice and so blatantly expresses, that the problem lies with the others and he it is who must change, makes the Scots the latter what is understandable close”. Independently, of course, some partners deny a friendly formulated and also meaning invitation to a couple counselling. c. the tension: Work? Family men, in particular are often another dilemma: In the traditional patriarchal relationship model, it was enough if himself the man to limited, to work and to feed the family, while the woman took care of all the rest.